The story of Shaquille O’Neal and Kobe Bryant is one of basketball’s greatest rivalries-turned-brotherhoods. As a regular reader of the ShaqFu Radio blog, you read all about it over the years. During their time together on the Los Angeles Lakers from 1996 to 2004, the two superstars were often at odds. Their fiery personalities clashed, and the media fed the narrative of constant infighting. Still, their undeniable chemistry on the court delivered three straight NBA championships from 2000 to 2002, cementing one of the most dominant dynasties in league history.
Over time, O’Neal and Bryant reconciled and formed a deep bond. After their playing days, both men spoke openly about their mutual respect, with Kobe once saying that despite their battles, Shaq was “the most dominant player ever.” Shaq, in turn, often praised Kobe’s relentless work ethic and killer instinct. Fans were left wondering what might have been had the duo stayed together longer.
When Kobe tragically passed away in January 2020, Shaq was devastated. His grief was visible during his emotional TNT tribute, where he referred to Kobe as his “little brother.” Since then, O’Neal has taken it upon himself to honor Bryant’s legacy, often defending him when he feels the Black Mamba is overlooked in discussions about the greatest of all time. Recently, O’Neal expressed his frustration over Kobe being ranked just 11th-best in an all-time list, arguing that Kobe’s impact and résumé demand more respect.
But Shaq’s loyalty to Kobe goes far beyond words. He revealed to People magazine that he checks in monthly on Kobe’s mother, Pamela, who lives in Las Vegas. “I always check in on Kobe’s mom,” O’Neal shared. “I make sure she’s okay.” Shaq noted that Kobe used to do the same for his own parents, and he now feels humbled to return the gesture.
“Their mom has been through a lot these last few years,” Shaq explained, referring not only to Kobe’s passing but also to the 2024 death of Kobe’s father, Joe Bryant. “Sometimes you just need somebody to check on you. I just try to make her smile.” Beyond phone calls, O’Neal also sends flowers and remains close with Kobe’s sisters, Sharia and Shaya.
The kindness reflects the growth of O’Neal, who has shown a softer, more generous side in recent years. While the early chapters of the Shaq-Kobe story were defined by conflict, the ending has become one of love, loyalty, and legacy. Shaq continues to carry Kobe’s memory with him — not only defending his place in history but also making sure Bryant’s family knows they’re never alone.